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Rity blanket of expat friends who seemed to cushion her from really understanding the lessons the countries had to offer on their own terms Why go to India to meet Richard the big Texan Guru for example Why not just go to Texas For those of us with eyelids only half caked with irt but who can t uproot our lives and travel to countries of our choosing is enlightenment still an option I wanted Gilbert to talk about how anyone with an ordinary life but who is searching for insight could still balance spiritual yearning with The Souls of Black Folk duty And that s my final peeve about this book I wondered if Gilbert had any sense ofuty or sense of obligation to anything beyond herself Gilbert seems to recognize the bonds of Eating the Elephant duty that restrict the locals she encounters Yet she somehow paints them as pleasurable or inevitable yokes for the people who bear them Heretached observations of life and The Alien's Patient death rituals in India and Indonesia as though they are restricted to those parts of the world made me want to shake her and say but there are rituals everywhere you have made a consciousecision to remove yourself from the ones you know I ask about The Art of Taking Action duty not because I wanted Gilbert to stay in a loveless marriage but because the concept ofuty is also linked to a concept of justice What is it that we ought to Sotello DeLeos Action Thriller Singles do Whato we owe each other Part of me felt that Gilbert took comfort in the non Dispossession dual aspects of Eastern philisophies in a strange way She seemed almost relieved that the nonuality of existence would ensure that one would not necessarily be punished by the universe for selfish The African Assertion: A Critical Anthology of African Literature, deeds I felt like Gilbert embraced that aspect of the philosophy without realizing the eual importance those cultures place on the balancing notions of reciprocityuty of being social beings in the truest sense often taking it to the other negative extreme The lack of sense of obligation to anyone other than herself made Gilbert seem curiously African American Women with Incarcerated Mates dead to the contradictions around her Sheidn t seem perturbed at the abject poverty of the Indian women around her or to uestion if it was just She never wondered how a spiritual person should grapple with the injustice of the world nor Food Activism: Agency, Democracy and Economy did she seem to uestion the rightness of living in the midst of poverty in an artificial environment created to specifically cater to pampered Westerners In Indonesia she finally seems to see beyond herself to the suffering of others but when sheoes try to help someone it seems impulsive and A Kid's Guide to African American History done almost with carelessness so that the whole thing almost becomes a big messAfter all of this the end of the book just seemed to fall flat as Gilbert tried to wrap things up uickly crowning it all of course with a romance with aoting and exotic lover This book had a lot of potential but ultimately it seemed like a story about one woman s sense of entitlement and her inability to ever uite move beyond that though she His Abused Mate does make some valiant efforts too so Shallow self indulgent and mired in the sort of liberal American obsession with oriental exoticism that is uniuely offensive because it is treated as enobling by its purveyors She treats the rest of the world as though it exists for the consumption of jaded rich white Americans and this book is a monument to that sort of arrogance and ignorance I am embarrassed to read this book in public The title and the flowery pasta y cover screams I m a book that contains the relentless rants of a neurotic 34 year old womanSo I m afraid that the strangers on the Metro will think I identify with herBut in the comfort of my own bed I am totally falling for this memoir Yes Gilbert is emotionally self indulgent are we supposed to feel bad that she lost both houses in the Oral Tradition in African Literature divorce annoying she s just tickled when she gains 23 pounds after eating her way through Italy and often really immature oh The endless WHY I cringe to think why so many women want to feel that this was a true spiritual journey It was a pre paid journey The woman starts off with telling us over and over about how painful herivorce was however she Change Leadership in Higher Education dismisses how it ever came to be that way Leaving her audience only to guess it was so horrible she had to leave and find herselfWhen asked in an interview ifumping her husband and pushing off wasn t selfish here is what Ms Gilbert had to say What is it about the American obsession with productivity and responsibility that makes it so Oral Tradition in African Literature difficult for us to allow ourselves a little time to solve the puzzle of our own lives before it s too late This statement alone tells so much A responsibility towards a marriage and spouse is considered an unwanted obsession and one s own pursuit of happiness supercedes everything else If a manecided to Icons of African American Literature dump his wife and family to flee to the Himalayas to meditate we wouldn t be calling it a spiritual journeywe would call it irresponsibility India This when she got just a little too proud of herself I grew so tired of her boasting about how all herecisions led to a higher plan of consciousness and a new appreciation for life and a new understanding of the universe at large And Bali was even worse I was hoping the little old guy ROMANCE didn t remember her Didn t that whole episode just turn out a little too cutely And then she fell off her bike She met heroctor friend and bought her a house And met an old guy and then she The Little Red Book did things to herself And then she slept with the old guy And of course she s better at that than any of us because she is now enlightened And then she made a little rhyming couplet of a life in Australia America Bali and Brazil Double cringeItaly The author s angst and shallow selfiscovery and pretend real people met with the express purpose of reflecting what she would like to learn lessons that most of us will have learned far earlier in life before interesting lessons presented themselves To uote a phrase from the Italy section of this book cross the street if you Blended Family (A contemporary BWWM African American Interracial Romance) ((The April and Derek Series) Book 1) dare to even glance in a bookstore window and entertain a thought of buying this book Elizabeth Gilbert has no ideas about life Not onlyoes she have nothing to teach she has nothing to say This book is so vicarious that it reveals a profound and Style in African Literature deeplyisturbing ignorance about the complexities of real life The author s observations about life are simplistic and her insights so embarrassingly undeveloped and unsophisticated that she comes across as a Alien Savior (Zerconian Warriors, detached observer There are very few passages in this book that reveal any real sense of transformation in her life She never really seems to glean anything authentic oreeply affecting from any of her experiences And because she has gained nothing she has nothing to offer The reader is frustrated and unable to connect with her on any level This memoir not only lacks readability it lacks any real humanity She is right when she says that she is not a traveler she oes not have the heart or spirit of a true traveler because she
remains eeply unaffected She is merely tourist a spectator barely scratching the surface of the lands she traverses the people she encounters and the experiences of what it means to be human She fails to see the poverty that surrounds her or maybe she sees it She Italian Grammar (Quickstudy Reference Guides - Academic) definitely never writes about it maybe because it is not part of the road to any enlightenmentIn spite of her year long journey she is still unable to gain true insight or wisdom from her pain and struggles There is no profoundness in her journey whether it is personal or physical This book is just a simple walk through a simple mind She is not even a good enough writer to be able to cleverlyisguise her childlike observations in beautifully crafted language I would rather read the trail journals of a young backpacker any Cities of Farmers day At least they are real After reading the book I wondered how it found its way to the bestseller list I was perplexed by its popularity So Iid some research As it turns out Eat Pray Love is an ideal industry example of how a publishing company can create a best seller from the #printing of a trade paperback In hard cover this book only generated #of a trade paperback In hard cover this book only generated book sales in the year in was published However someone at Penguin adopted it as a Muddying the Waters darling and created a hard core campaign to sell the trade paperbackWell when they said here s 200 000ollars Elizabeth now go travel and Stolen Tomorrows: Understanding and Treating Women's Childhood Sexual Abuse don t forget to eat pray and love when you come back I will get you the best editor and we will both feel enlightened So shallow I cringe I cringe even for the women that buy into such shallownessIf you really want to live with intention live your journey here and now YOUR here and nowThis book gets Zero stars. With the help of a native guru and a surprisingly wise cowboy from Texas she embarked on four uninterrupted months of spiritual exploration In Bali she studied the art of balance between worldly enjoyment andivine transcendence She became the pupil of an elderly medicine man and also fell in love the best way unexpectedly An intensely articulate and moving memoir of self iscovery Eat Pray Love is about what can happen when you claim responsibility for your own contentment and stop trying to live in imitation of society’s ideals It is certain to touch anyone who has ever woken up to the unrelenting need for change. What I m about to say must be wrong because I couldn t get through this book I tried And I failed So I have NO BUSINESS WRITING THIS Don t read itA cousin recommended EPL and I thought it would teach me something about the book market My secret boyfriend at the public library was horrified I checked it out given his ACLU offensive intimacy with my record and tastes and yes like others I was embarrassed to have EPL in my possessionBecauseWhat IS this MOVEMENT of lily white bourgeois women with fancy educations working themselves into identity crises that they think can be solved by a new form of coloniasm This hyper feminized adventure travel Subaltern poaching for the 21st century Taker mentality as spiritual uestThese people need their own version of Outside magazine or some shit Oh yeah they already o It s called the GAIAM catalogYeah We re talking some serious Hes Opposing Counsel dilettante tourism taking entire countries as theme spas Italy for excess India for asceticism Indonesia for the middle path Ladies Country I is not your personal terrain for selfiscovery You Articles on Bloom County, Including: Berkeley Breathed, Billy and the Boingers, the Academia Waltz, Opus (Comic Strip), Outland (Comic Strip), Minor Characters in Bloom County, a Wish for Wings That Work, Goodnight Opus, the Last Basselope don t get to interiorize Country I as a metaphor for your personal potential If your interior journey needs a bunch of leisure time and poor countries to be realized maybe you re asking the wrong uestionsThe consumerist mentality was so self important and so priveleged that I just couldn t make myself give this book any time This was one of those books I will read over and over again All those cynics out there who criticize Gilbert for writing a too cutesy memoir that seems beyond belief and who claim that she is selfish for leaving her responsibility are clearly missing the point First sheid not write the book to inspire you She wrote it as her own memoir you can agree or The Rise of Nerd Politics disagree with how she went about her enlightenment but you cannot judge her for how she found happiness It is her memoir not yours You can achieve enlightement by whatever means you want Second to call her irresponsible for leaving responsibilities behind is absurd She was in an unhappy marriage You cannot force yourself to be happy I applaud her foroing something that many people are afraid to Motivational Enhancement Therapy Manual: A Clinical Research Guide for Therapists Treating Individuals With Alcohol Abuse and Dependence do She had no children and so the responsibilities she neglected were minimal I also suspect that those of you whoidn t enjoy the book could not relate to it You have never suffered a life changing tragedy You have never felt paralyzed by fear anger or Boku no Hero Academia dj - 爆豪、ケツの穴開発するってよ。 [Bakugou, Ketsu no Ana Kaihatsu Surutte yo.] disappointment You have never had to go through a healing process that seems endless You have never felt lost That s great for you but unfortunately that makes it hard for you to relate to this memoir Finally those of you who found her story too unbelievable have probably never felt the joy of traveling the world There is no better way toiscover yourself than getting out of your comfort zone and immersing yourself in someone else s Traveling the world is not self indulgent If Manga Mania Magical Girls and Friends How to Draw the Super Popular Action Fantasy Characters of Manga doing what we want to or enjoyoing is self indulgent then we are all guilty If you are enjoying an ice cream sundae meeting your friends for a night out or a good work out you are being self indulgent My guess is that those of you who Inside Academia didn t find the value in this book are unhappy with your own life Perhaps you should be a little self indulgent yourself Eat Pray Love is the monologue of a Neurotic American Princess Liz in her mid thirties The first few chapters background the rest of the book a confessional that tells how she came to find her 8 year marriageistasteful realised she wasn t keen on the next logical step which is apparently to fill her expansive apartment with children and plunges into an impotent Protest Politics in the Marketplace depression Without even gettingrunkOne night whilst bawling on the bathroom floor a habit she has grown fond of she is struck by a flakey attack of twattery Being an American this experience manifests itself as finding some kind of God or thereabouts Naturally she resolves to leave her husband Her husband isn t keen on this Celestial Tears Hidden Alchemy development and Liz finds that strangely he takes poorly to having his heart shattered into a million piecesHusband behaves badly and our protagonist feels hurt and sad But no matter because before long Liz hooks up with the sexy exciting yoga chanting David who takes a five minute break from his headlong charge toward floaty Thai fisherman s pants a thin ponytail and male pattern baldness to rattle her well bred bones Lizrinks The Exposition of Artistic Research deeply from lust s stagnant wellButivorce negotiations ROMANCE (BWWM Contemporary Romance Boxset) (African American Pregnancy Interracial Multicultural Book 1) dorag on leaving Liz once again bawling on the bathroom floor This time however it s David s bathroom floor And David it seems is unimpressed by such Shallow Grave displays It seems men are interested in women for their uniue and interesting ualities and unless you are Bob Dylan melancholy gets old fast Incidentally if you find a chap whooes like this constant emo The Economics of Agricultural Development drama then runHere s what really bothers me about this book Eat Pray Love is a New York Times bestseller It was recommended to me by a friend a woman who is a successful publisher in her own right According to her this is the best book she has read this year It s been a short yearIn short she isn t given to fawning excesses that one might expect from anyone whooesn t think this book should have been printed on softer paper I think 3 ply would about Shallow Grave do it So I was surprised by her ringing endorsementI am told you see that women get this book Which means they sympathise and understand it I bet its on Oprah s Fucking Book ListWith this in mind here s what I will say when I am invited to Oprah s Fucking Book clubfeminist rantWomen You will get to the end of this book and may still be under the illusion that it is not your responsibility to make yourself happy Whereas it is in fact your own responsibility to make yourself happy Being happy without being with a manoes not trivialise love You should find challenges entertainment fun excitement passion the thrill of mastery and satisfaction of achievement through your own The Pocket Guide to Action doings not who you areoing Love might enhance this It cannot substitute thisCan you imagine if men felt so incomplete without women When Algorithms for Clustering Data (Prentice Hall Advanced Reference Series : Computer Science) did is become acceptable for men to be our projects Whenid it become acceptable for women to be Made to Crave Action Plan Participants Guide defined by their men as if something less than this arrangementenigrates the sanctity of a relationship Fuck until I read this book I thought I Introduction to African American Studies dealt feminism a crippling blow by jack knifing the trailer this morning I look like Susan Sontag in gumboots compared to this bookIn EPL the author s only explanation for her pathetic simpering twattery is that she is as affectionate as a cross between a Golden Retriever and a barnacle This is supposed to tell us why her sex life resembles pollen in a strong breezeTo her and all other Oprah book clubbers who get this book get a Golden Retriever Or barnacles Or maybe a Golden Retriever with barnacles But for sweet knit one purl one Christ leave this book on the shelfPost Script I m not anti American I lived there and many of the best people I know are Americans I have however noticed a peculiar enthusiasm for Godliness in the land of the free Ok I admit I still have about 30 pages to go which I will get around to reading soon need a break from the book though and which I highly oubt will prompt me to change my 2 star rating I know many people love this book for what I consider personal reasons therefore I tread lightly so as to not come off as critical of people s personal opinions rather just the
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book itself First I found the author not so likable I ve read other readers reviews itself First I found the author not so likable I ve read other readers reviews which she was escribed as so funny and like a girl we Alcohol Addiction d all love to know and have to tell you Iidn t feel the love She came off to me as lofty self absorbed and needy I felt like she wanted to make herself a victim of her Mobilizing New York divorce and herepression She was so vague about some aspects of the Aspects of South African Literature decline of her relationship with her ex husband as well as with someetails about the The Barefoot Girl: A Novel of St. Margaret, Patroness of the Abused divorce which led me to believe that she reallyid a number on him but then she whined throughout the #book about how HE was the one making the Social Media in Academia divorce soifficult I on t mean to sound #about how HE was the one making the ivorce so Orality in Igbo (African) Literature difficult Ion t mean to sound of how she coped with it because I can t relate to that and it would be unfair of me but I just couldn t help but feel that she kind of bashed the ex a little when she was seemingly the majority of the reason for their split Plus she acted like she is the only person in the world to suffer through a Modern English in Action (Level 12) divorce yet she was totally in love with another man less than a month after she realized she wanted out of her marriage and her account isn t clear as to how long after her realization. A celebrated writer's irresistible candid and elouent account of her pursuit of worldly pleasure spiritualevotion and what she really wanted out of life Around the time Elizabeth Gilbert turned thirty she went through an early onslaught midlife crisis She had everything an educated ambitious American woman was supposed to want a husband a house a successful career But instead of feeling happy and fulfilled she was consumed with panic grief and confusion She went through a Nature-Inspired Metaheuristic Algorithms divorce a crushingepression another failed love and the eradication of everything she ever thought she was supposed to be To recover from all thi.
Download â E-book, or Kindle E-pub Ä Elizabeth GilbertShe actually got the The Alchemical Mandala A Survey of the Mandala in the Western Esoteric Traditions divorce ball rolling so I can t help but assume she was unfaithul So it was hard to have sympathy for her when she got hysterical over the exisagreeing about settlement The Alcohol Blackout: Walking, Talking, Unconscious Lethal details Um I would think that happens when you blindside your spouse with aivorce reuest Not saying it s right just saying that s lifeSecondly in her search of spirituality I couldn t help but find some of it a little far fetched And could she have Digital Feminist Activism: Girls and Women Fight Back Against Rape Culture drawn out her stay at the Ashram in India any longer or with mind numbing snooooze inducingetail I found myself skipping entire paragraphs at a time and not just because I was in a bit of a hurry to read the book before book club but because she bored the hell out of me My favorite part of India ironically was Richard From Texas So I suppose that just sums up for us what I got out of the India sectionBut I won t leave us all on a totally negative note I enjoyed parts of the book some of them thoroughly I loved her friends for instance and am perplexed at how I find the author so unlikable but somehow she has such cool people in her life And she was SOMETIMES funny with little sarcastic bits that caught me off guard and made me laugh aloud When she wasn t being overly wordy I loved reading her The Story of Han Xiangzi: The Alchemical Adventures of a Daoist Immortal (China Program Book) descriptions of Italy India and most especially Indonesia And of course whoidn t Alien Mate (Zerconian Warriors, drool over herescription of that pizza in Naples YUM I read that part twice I found this book unbelievably phoneyI hated this so much that I got up early this morning to finish it and gave my copy to the library and honestly I m not too proud of thatTo me it just felt so insincere that there s no chance I would have made it past the second chapter had it not been for book club obligationsI enjoyed her writing style but I absolutely could not warm to her at all To be fair I The Responsible Critic: Essays on African Literature, in Honor of Professor Ben Obumselu do think she would be an excellent travel writerThe section on India was agony to read I have met enough people freshly returned from Indian ashrams to know that they often seem a tad self absorbed and I also suspect that they really only get up at 3am so that they have even me time Sheidn t o much to alter my opinionHonestly this woman meditated longer harder and bluer than anyone else has past or present She won the meditation competition that no one was actually having Possibly it was not enlightenment that she found but simply that she finally became completely self absorbed Easy mistake to make Don t bother with this book It took me nearly a year to finish it I was so isgusted by the writer s apparent lack of awareness of her own privilege her trite observations and the unbelievably shallow way in which she represents a journey initiated by grief that I initially couldn t bear to read beyond Italy Like others who have written here I made myself pick the book up again because so many people have raved about it and I made myself finish it hoping all the while there would be some redemptive insight or at least some small kernel of originality or wisdom I was sorely Hot African American Erotica disappointed Liz is so obsessed with male attention throughout the book in every section she expounds in greatetail on her flirtations with men many of whom seem to take care of her or compliment her on her wit beauty or charm that it makes her self Advancing Biological Farming described uest to learn to be alone seem absurd and farcical Sheoes not have a feminist bone in her body shocking for a woman who is purportedly on a uest for self Cards Of Alchemy discovery after what sheescribes as a The Hermetic and Alchemical Writings of Paracelsus Forgotten Books devastaingivorce She seems to have absolutely no capacity for self awareness or reflection in this regard and her superficial treatment of this and other aspects of her psyche bored me to tears Basically this memoir accounts her flirting her way across the globe into a new relationship with little to no growth in self awareness that I can perceive Even in India her purported time of inward reflection she attaches her herself to the likes of Richard from Texas who seems a cross between a father figure and object of flirtation Ultimately she falls in love with a man much older than she who seems to Purely Academic dote on her in uite a paternalistic way When she spends pages talking about her bladder infection from too much sex I have to uestion what her intentions are in writing about this Whyo we need to know about her bladder infection What The Academic Job Search Handbook does it add to our understanding of her uest To me it says only Look I mesirable Not so interesting Additionally her brand of spirituality certainly The Hawaiian Islands Their Resources, Agricultural, Commercial and Financial does not come close to transcending the fashionable Western obsession with all things Eastern particularly Buddhism and the ashram culture That a Westerner could go to India on her spiritual uest and have absolutely no awareness of 1 her gross appropriation of another culture s religion and 2 the abject poverty that surrounds her is inexusable She oozes privilege at every turn and that privilege remains unacknowledged and unexamined I was willing to look past my initial reaction that the end of a relationship is not in the grand scheme of things that bad everyone s suffering certainly has its own validity However I was unable to muster much empathy for Elizabeth Gilbertespite #my attempts to overcome my isgust at her shallow preoccupation Ultimately #attempts to overcome my isgust at her shallow preoccupation Ultimately woman had nothing to teach me other than that I should trust my own instincts to abandon a book when I have such a strong reaction of Alien n Outlaw Galactic Alliance dislike from page one I am sorry I spent the time and energy trying to finish it I happened to read somewhere that she has recently bought a church in Manhattan which she is converting into her personal living space And this is enlightenment I am sickened that Paramount has bought the rights to the book for a motion picture and that she stands to make even money than she already has on this insipid memoir Wow this book took me on a roller coaster ride I couldn tecide if I loved it or hated it and it seemed like every few pages I Gem is Mine but Heart is Your d go from thinking Gilbert waselightfully witty to thinking this was the most horribly self absorbed person to ever set foot on the earth In the end the overall effect was rather like sitting at a party listening to someone tell a long involved story all about themselves and you re alternately annoyed and fascinated and you want to get up and leave but she s just so entertaining that you keep telling yourself you ll leave in the next minute and so you end up sticking through the whole thing WARNING LOOONG REVIEW AHEAD I Financial Alchemy (Volume 1) didn t hate Eat Pray Love but it left me really unsatisfied When I first started reading the book I couldn t help rolling my eyes and thinking Here we go another tale of a precious privileged woman who is unsatisfied with her life I stuck with it though and was charmed through the Italy section by Gilbert s humor andown to earth writing style Still for a woman who abandons everything in search of a true spiritual experience she leaves most of the important uestions unanswered I felt that Gilbert projects herself so strongly onto every place and every person she encounters that I m not sure what she really learnt along the wayAs Narcissistic Abuse delightful as the Italy section was to read I felt like she never really stepped out of herself to understand the country on its own terms and to move beyond the stereotype Despite it being a bit of a superficial assessment I have no problem with Gilbert associating Italy with pleasure There is enough beauty there to warrant itIt was her interpretation of what it means to open oneself to pleasure that bothered me and seemed very narrow For Gilbert this consisted mostly of overindulging in foods and allowing herself to put on weight It seemed like she came to Italy thinking she already knew how to experience pleasure and proceeded to enact it based on herefinition even though there are indications that the Italian interpretation of pleasure is not merely restricted to this I would have liked to see her explore what it meant to Tardis - Timeline devote herself to pleasure just as seriously and reverently as she seemed to take the meditative experiences in India Overall though my biggest problem with this book was I hadifficulty at times believing Gilbert achieved the enlightenment she talks about because she is so internally focused Most importantly I still have not really grasped why it was necessary for her to travel to these 3 places I understand that her intention was not for this book to be a travelogue but it begs the uestion Why was it necessary to go to Italy India and Indonesia if the purpose was to not
To Gain Something From Them That Couldgain something from them that could be found elsewhere In every country Gilbert created a little secu. S Gilbert took a radical step In order to give herself the time and space to find out who she really was and what she really wanted she got rid of her belongings uit her job and undertook a yearlong journey around the world all alone Eat Pray Love is the absorbing chronicle of that year Her aim was to visit three places where she could examine one aspect of her own nature set against the backdrop of a culture that has traditionally Alien Husband Alien Bride done that one thing very well In Rome she studied the art of pleasure learning to speak Italian and gaining the twenty three happiest pounds of her life India was for the art ofevotion and. .